Self Esteem Secrets For Women

Friday, November 04, 2005


“Congratulate me on what?” you’re probably saying to yourself.

I just wanted to take this opportunity to congratulate you for accepting that SOMETHING in your life needs to change.

Whether you’re struggling with negative feelings, a low self image, shyness, relationship issues or jealousy…

The first step in finding a solution to those problems is realizing that they exist!

In fact, I know MANY people (some who are very close to me) who REFUSE to accept that anything is wrong in their lives.

They are extremely negative people who lash out at others and point fingers when things don’t go their way. They refuse to admit that their negative feelings absolutely DOMINATE their every thought.

It’s very difficult for me sometimes when I’m around these people and they make bad decisions that do nothing but create more turmoil in their lives.

Quite often I just want to reach out, shake them and say “Wake up! You deserve better! I can help you!”

But the truth of the matter is…it is virtually impossible to help someone who won’t admit they have a problem and won’t accept help from ANYONE, under any circumstances….period.

So today I want to congratulate you for NOT being one of those people.

How do I know you’re not one of those people?

Simply because you’re reading this right now!

Those people I was referring to earlier have a VERY hard time taking advice from ANYONE. Some of them even try to ‘act’ like they’re better than others, so they turn their nose up at any sort of “self help” information.

But what’s really sad is that deep down inside they feel they’re actually… “Less than”. And I know this is true because in a few rare instances they’ve actually come to me for help.

I remember one woman in particular where after our initial consultation, she told me how she regretted the fact that it took her so long to get enough courage to face up to reality.

I sat silently listening to her heartbreaking stories of how her negative feelings affected every aspect of her life, eventually leaving her with very few people she could still consider as friends.

She used to get so upset she would actually BLACK OUT after one of her “explosive episodes” where she yelled at the top of her lungs and completely lost control, seemingly turning into a different person.

Simply put…learning to control her negative feelings gave this woman her life back.

And that’s why I want to commend you on actively seeking out ways to achieve a better life.

I don’t care if you buy up every self improvement product on the market or just search for free articles to read on the internet like this one.

But whatever you do, make sure to ACT on whatever insight you learn about. Just reading about ways to improve your self esteem will NOT give you a better self image.

But I’m sure you already know that.

Just by reading this, you’ve proved that you have “what it takes” to achieve a LESS stressful and MORE fulfilling life. And I believe ANYONE can do this once they take that first, very important step like you have….acceptance.

I hope you’ve enjoyed this article and found it well worth the time it took you to read it. Next week I’ll have a BRAND NEW video for you…so stay tuned.

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Wishing you all the best,

Larry Bilotta


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